How to find an ideal partner? It can not be because ideals do not exist! However, you can find the right person. And to say “appropriate” we mean someone emotionally mature and responsible. And while it seems obvious, still so many of us fall into the trap of unhealthy and even toxic relationships. And this is how we create when we depend on an emotionally immature person who does not have several essential qualities to create a stable relationship …
Honesty is the key to a real relationship. Mature people are not afraid to say what they think. They know that it’s only thanks to this that you can define problems and then solve them. They do not try to avoid the truth or conceal it for their own benefit.
They take responsibility for their own actions and words. When they make a mistake, they admit it and try to fix it. They do not run away from the consequences – they know that sometimes it is the only way to learn a lesson.
They think about others and, above all, about their partners. They know that their actions and words can affect the surroundings, that’s why they think first and then they speak or act.
Mature people are not afraid of defending their opinion. They can not be suppressed in any way. They also expect the same from their partner, thanks to which there is space for the exchange of ideas and beliefs, for learning from each other. In this way, you can also apply for compromises without the risk that someone will feel unhappy.
Well, mature people can support. They just want the best for the other person. They know that love is about devotion, mutual respect and affirmation. And they try to give it all. Actually, they do not have to try because it comes naturally to them