The guys are cheating . Even those who seem like great partners and fathers to children do it. There is no rule how much a man earns, how old he is and what character he has. The main role is played by the rules. A guy who observes moral norms is much more inclined to resist temptation. In time, he will see that the situation is dangerous and will do everything to avoid similar in the future. Even when his feelings lean towards another woman and can not help much, he will not betray his wife. It will be guided by a sense of decency, responsibility and duty. Such a guy understands that love is first and foremost a decision to make the other person happy, and not be guided by butterflies in the stomach, which are impermanent.
Unfortunately, there is no guarantee on which man we will find. We can not predict whether it will change its rules under the influence of certain events or people. It’s a lottery.
It is always best to look for faults in yourself, but in the case of doing evil to another person, there is never an excuse. Even if you got stuck, you became more absent in this relationship or there is another problem that you are causing, the guy can not justify betrayal. Betrayal is always unacceptable. Unfortunately, women very often get caught up in similar excuses and forgive men for rash. We do not want to make you understand that forgiveness is something bad. We do not judge this. The point is that a man must be aware that such misdemeanors as betrayal is not justified.
“I’m so poor …”
The justification for the “poor woman” is used by many guys. They invent different reasons why they are poor, unhappy and injured. They experienced a bad period at work, someone cheated them, they lost money … The ground is to arouse grief in your eyes, and maybe even remorse. It’s a manipulation you should never take on.
“It’s just sex”
The guy makes it clear that he separates the emotional sphere from the physical one. He convinces you that he only loves you, and the woman with whom he betrayed you means nothing to him. Even if it’s true, it’s hard to say that he would love you. If it were, he would not betray you. Especially more than once.
“We have separated ourselves”
A typical grip of a guy who is trying to shift the burden of guilt on you. He still emphasizes that you did not give him time, you did not want to talk to him, etc. Finally, you really start to think that it’s only your fault. In this case, ask him one question: why did not you do anything about it and do not try to get time with me?
“I was experiencing difficulties”
The type of problem has nothing to do here. Betrayal and a personal problem are separate matters. The irresponsibility of the guy who escapes the problem comes to light. In addition, in a way like an affair with another woman. Lack of support from your side is also not an explanation. First he could end the relationship with you. Why did not he do it when you actually “disappointed him so much”?
“You were neglected”
Negligence of the partner also does not justify betrayal. If, after many requests and comments from a man, the woman does nothing with her, she may simply leave. What is the point to be with a person who ceases to like.
“I did it under the influence of alcohol”
On his own responsibility, he led to such a state. Nobody was pouring alcohol into his throat for strength. A senseless excuse.
“I forgot, I do not know why I did it myself”
People do different foolish things in life, but how can one forget so much that they lose consciousness of what treason is. This is a typical excuse used by a guy who does not know what to come up with to push back the burden of guilt. Ask him what guarantee you will not forget again.