Nowdays, one of the social roles that women take is … eternal bride . A woman who has been in a stable relationship for many years. She lives with her partner or sees him from time to time. She knows his parents, relatives and friends. She goes on holiday with him, sleeps and spends her free time.This is how it goes year after year.
One thing that shows that she treats this relationship seriously. She must do it.
In such relationships there are a lot of misunderstandings about the nature of acquaintance and common familiarity. Some men have been deceiving their partners for years with various promises and are constantly shifting the moment of fulfillment of the promise. They consent to this, though they suffer in silence. They do not want to leave the guy because they are attached to him or are afraid that they will not find anyone anymore.
As to the reasons for this, there may be several reasons. Sometimes people are unkempt, the feeling burns out between them, but because they are afraid of loneliness, they choose mediocrity. It happens sometimes that a guy does not want to settle down because he lives like that. There is no fault in this woman. It also happens that it is mainly she who is responsible for her situation. Her character and way of being make her not seen as a wife candidate. However, this does not justify a man who should make it clear.
What types of women will never get an engagement ring?
1. A virgin who thinks about the future only until the wedding day
Her future is limited to the day she stands in front of everyone in a white dress and will be admired by all and sundry. Her thoughts run the furthest to the moment of cutting the wedding cake or honeymoon. The guy often perceives the subject matter as a complement to the fairy tale. This is a type brought up on romantic comedies, completely detached from reality.Good for some time, but not for a lifetime.
2. Desperate, for whom wedding is raising social status
In this case, the guy uses the woman. The man eagerly uses what his partner gives him, and she thinks that in exchange she will receive an engagement ring. Nothing more wrong.
3. A woman with very high expectations towards a guy
She has a demanding attitude, and she gives little of herself. Her requirements in relation to a guy include his appearance, behavior, earnings, way of spending time, and even concern people with whom he is friends. The disheartened man gradually pulls her away from him. The last thing he’s dreaming about is buying her engagement ring.
4. A woman who does not expect anything (victim)
She does not expect from a man more than he gives her. It’s enough for her to be next to him. She treats smiles, small gifts, compliments and other expressions of his feelings like treasures. She is happy that he invited her on a kebab, and do not dare to dream about a romantic dinner at a restaurant. She jumps up in joy when he gets chocolate from the discount on Valentine’s Day. She secretly dreams that if she does not expect anything, he will kneel in front of her on one knee. She will not see this moment.
5. A woman who lives on only today
There are no goals. She lives completely unknowingly on today. She does not try to get a better job – she thinks it will be somehow. I do not want to develop. I do not want to fight for anything better. Her life goes by working, watching TV series, eating, sleeping and spending time with a guy. Years pass and she is still in the same place, only she is more and more frustrated. A guy who has ambitions will not propose to her.
6. A woman who does not see that she causes her own problems
She is fat, because she practices sporadically and every now and then starts her diet, and after a few months she will return to her old habits. For a long time, she could not find a man because she herself deterred the men with her behavior. Bad things meet her because karma comes back to her. She does not have a good job because she did not do much to get her. And so you can exchange it over and over again.This is a type of fatalist who has a grudge against the whole world and other people that some things meet her, and she does not see how she contributed to it.
7. A woman who can not do practical activities
She can not cook a normal dinner, She only cleans it by the way, she does not know that the pipes are unclogged, the kettle of descaling, the iron cleans, no longer ironing the shirt … (which does not mean it is her duty). The guy is aware that such a partner will have to teach everything or replace it. Just like a small child. It’s fun spending time with her, but it’s not material for a wife.