10 disturbing signals that testify to problems in the relationship
When is the relationship starting to make you uninteresting? Then when there are some characteristic symptoms that many couples usually do not pay attention to.
It does not have to be an earthquake. In total, it is rare. Much more often it is something like illness – some alarm signals start to appear, usually neglected by a few. Over time, problems and mutual antagonisms begin to grow. And when we realize that it is not good, it is often too late to save the relationship. Save yourself this.
Here are the most common signals that should get your attention.
You stopped touching
People who love each other want to touch each other constantly. Therefore, the moments of separation are awful to them. They miss the other man, for his skin, touch, smell. The fact that you have less contact in a stable relationship is normal. It is not possible to maintain a high tension in a relationship without interruption. But when you stop touching yourself completely – it’s a sign that it’s not good.
You spend evenings in your world
You can be together, but separately. Even if you are in the same room in the evening and even next to you, you are not together if everyone has a kneecap. Are you both looking at your smartphones or laptops? Do not you talk to me practically? Be careful because you may find that you have a deeper connection with your phones.
You forget to say something
Once it was totally natural for you that you share with each other news, information, even an unimportant crap. And now? Think carefully. Is it not a coincidence that you have stopped talking about many things? Not even premeditated – it just goes out a lot, it happens a lot in your life, but you forget to tell your partner about it.
You like others
There is nothing wrong with noticing attractive men. Everyone likes to hang an eye from time to time with a pleasant appearance. Believe that your partner also sees beautiful women. Unless you live in the jungle ;-). But a certain limit is not exceeded. The problem arises when you start to look after others and even look for opportunities to make contact. Not to mention flirtations and enchantments.
You do not care
Once you did not think that your partner would leave for a weekend without you or meet with a long-lost friend. Now you agree to everything. He, too. Want to go to the party? Let it go. Are you leaving the house wearing costumes? He does not say anything, though he would have burst out of jealousy. Indifference is one of the clearest signs of large union problems.
Selfishness has entered your bedroom
Partners who care about themselves, in a bed more than about their pleasure, take care of the pleasure of a loved one. When this changes, it becomes clear that something bad is happening. Therefore, take your intimate life under the microscope. What is the? Do you still care for your partner to get close to one hundred percent satisfaction? And does he care about you?
You do not know where you are going
Once upon every question about your relationship you had a ready answer. Yes, it’s love for the grave. Yes, we will definitely get married, but we still have time for that. It’s great, we’ll never part. We plan to live with each other. And now? Now that you are asked about your plans and future, you do not know what to say. Because you do not know what the truth really is.
You are biting yourself
Here is the remark that he grew a beer muscle. There’s like an innocent teaser about the fact that the guys of your friends earn more from him. He does not owe you anyway. And that will allow you to make a small nudge about your figure, and that will criticize your parents. Perhaps you have got used to such “jokes”, but beware, because if they hide venom and malice, they can get serious trouble on you.
You blame yourself for everything
That you have a small flat, that you do not go anywhere together, that something did not work out, and even that it is raining and it is Monday. In relationships that are over the precipice, the norm is to blame partners literally for everything. In addition, there are claims – that the socks are on the floor, he did not call when he promised, and you did not make dinner. Only so much and enough is enough to make the relationship uneasy.
Every serious conversation ends with an argument
It is not good if you can not talk to each other calmly – or you have forgotten how to do it, because once you did not have the slightest problem with it. Now it’s hard for you to talk to each other so that you do not argue or argue. You feel that you can not get along. Even talks about banalities or everyday matters can end unpleasantly. It’s time to save!